i was just presenting one view... i tend to go with an attitude of if you talk to a person long enough and get to the heart of what they are trying to express to you, we are all speaking some portion or the truth and just trying to be acknowledged. "hey, see my part! you can choose to believe what you want later, but at least see my part!"
so in that vain, thanks for all the agreements and thanks for all the disagreements.
(hey, be thankful for your critics.. they will point out all of your blindspots!)
peace and love