elias has visited his sister 4 times.
the first time, back in august, was when she had a feeling of great upliftment and joy while driving.
the second time, probably in september, she heard a voice say softly in her ear, while she was lying quietly "i love you" "i love you."
the third time was at her birthday party one week ago. she felt him almost as if they were one, and his thoughts and feelings she was able to see through his eyes. while her boyfriend played beautiful music on the piano, she came over to me and said, "i feel like i need to thank you for giving me life, and i feel like elias is urging me to say it. i kept hesitating and he said, "tell her now, while you are feeling it." my daughter has never expressed such a thing, but elias did several times thank me for bringing him into the world and for being his mother, to which i would reply that being his mother was a great honor.
then, the friend at whose house we were, a friend who my son introduced me to - my daughter said i see you as elias saw you, through his eyes, and he felt great value in your friendship, he likes your energy and your way of being with people, he loves you and he loved being in your house.
today, while she was driving and slowing down for a read light, she looked into the rear view mirror and saw his eyes looking back at her. happy, loving and sweet. it lasted for as long as she could look in the mirror. later, she tried and tried to reproduce it but could not.