Understanding Gender

[darktemplarssj]

Hi guys/girls, I thought I'd post a comment on some thoughts I've
had lately.

I've been trying to understand the nature of gender. Of course both
genders are equal but they are certainly different. It seems, from
my limited experience that the fairer gender isn't one so much of
imagination and blue-ray infulence but more of emotions and green-
ray reactions. While the reverse seems to be true for males. I say
this because I see fewer females playing video games, going to
action/fantasy movies or liking things generally of a scifi/fantasy
category but doing more emotionally involving and social things. My
confusion comes from the fact that there are still many females who
engage themselves with these activities and at do so very
emersively. example: Studing computer science(programming) seems
to be mostly limited to the male population in most schools
including mine. But I have meet 1 or 2 females that are very adept
at computer science, better than anyone else I know.

Thus my attemt at understanding turns twords a more complex model.
My current attempt to explain the schism between male and females
personalities derives strangely enough from my physics class. We
were mapping the interactive patterns of positive and negative
particles and their "field lines". The following thoughts came to
mind.

-The classical "male" is the outgoing or "positive" polarity aspect
-thus females are "negative" or introspective.
-Each person is a dipole, just as in nature it is not possible to
find a monopolar object. Thus each person has a positive and
negative aspect.

So maybe the polarity aspects of each person are filtered through
the body that you are born into and through sociological mores and
we get the generalized male and female that exist in society here
today.

I would be interested in any comments on this. I believe ancient
tantra has about the same ideals of personal polarity but ill have
to look into it more.

My biggest deliberation right now is why Ive met a few females who
are more blue-ray oriented than guys that I know. I hope some of
these thoughts are helpful to someone other than myself.

-Dave

[Chris Hamilton]

Hi Dave,

Your questions are certainly interesting and probably what all men and women
have been asking for ages :) Of course, socieities' prevailing beliefs at
any time will influence the male or female role, but at the basic core is
simply biological predilection: Women can have babies. This means our bodies
are different than yours, of course, and that necessitates at least one
acitivity, which is giving birth, as being special in the female. Our
hormones are different so we can do this, although we do have some
testosterone, it's not nearly the same amount a man has. So, the biological
process of procreation is what basically makes us different. Now, a really
good question is, in Ra's terms (or David's theories too as a matter of
fact:), what part did vibration play in 'how' our sexes split the way they
did and develop how they did. I mean, an amoeba splits in two and one pretty
much looks the same as another (chuckle), so why did we physically turn out
the way we did? There may be some answers in phi and pi vibrations, as an
example. Love, Chris
I've been trying to understand the nature of gender. Of course both
> genders are equal but they are certainly different. > So maybe the
polarity aspects of each person are filtered through
> the body that you are born into and through sociological mores and
> we get the generalized male and female that exist in society here
> today.
> My biggest deliberation right now is why Ive met a few females who
> are more blue-ray oriented than guys that I know. I

[chlobebe]

I think it's been behavioral conditioning throughout the ages that
has shaped what is supposed to be female and male. And because it's
been "shaped" it can be shaped again into something that resonates at
the higher understanding we are always coming into.
I've always noticed how people use their female and male animas
selves based on what society wants them to be. But on a deeper level,
using these dual energies that exist within oneself actually
harmonize a person into a whole human being, imo.

Sure, there are men who are more "in touch" with their inner feminine
and vice-versa, women who are more "in touch" with their inner
masculine aspects, and I think the struggle is there to find the
balance of both. And be able to express that balance freely thus
being true to their higher self. Finding the expression is like a see-
saw ride, well not always that extreme, but the energies are
continually blending and melding so that gender is not so much an
issue to focus on as is being your self in all of it's wonderful
individuality.

Thus you'll attract people in your life at different times who
represent aspects of your self, whether it's opposite, complementary
or like.

By the way, I have a 9-year-old daughter, and she's been playing
video games on the computer since she was 3. She's also a big LOTR
and Matrix fan. And she's sweetly feminine and intelligent. I'm not
conditioning her to be one way or the other, but to just express her
natural inner self so that as she grows into adulthood she won't be
so influenced by the roles of society as she will be inner-directed.

Hope that helps a little,
Musing thoughtfully in dual-mode,
Chlo

[Tony E. P.]

Here's what I have come to understand so far, whether it's correct of
incorrect. Males are of a positive orientation, while females are of
a negative orientation. The positive orientation I think comes from
like a red ray, and the negative orientation is like of the blue ray.
That it travels from the lower densities to the higher densities. And
eventually society will start swinging back into balance, a
male/female balance, since it's mostly male oriented currently.

That's my two cents, and I know it isn't much.

[Light Eye]

Dear Friends,

Here's something nice concerning the male/female - ying/yang - duality.

http://www.lovesedona.com/02.htm

Be Well, BE LOVE.

David




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[David Wilcock]

From: Tony E. P.

>Here's what I have come to understand so far, whether it's correct of
incorrect. Males are of a positive orientation, while females are of
a negative orientation.

DW: Whew, Tony... you're a brave man to risk the potential flames that
this could kick up towards you.

>The positive orientation I think comes from
like a red ray, and the negative orientation is like of the blue ray.
That it travels from the lower densities to the higher densities. And
eventually society will start swinging back into balance, a
male/female balance, since it's mostly male oriented currently.

That's my two cents, and I know it isn't much.

DW: In universal energy systems there is "source" and "sink." One
polarity radiates outward and one polarity draws inward. This is
distortedly reflected in the sexual organs.

However, there is such massive potential for misunderstanding on this
that in Divine Cosmos, I simply named the corresponding polarities A1
(aether 1) and A2 (aether 2). To say that the feminine is 'negative' can
get you into enormous semantic hot water with otherselves, because of
how that word is used in our language and even in expressing the
polarities of service to self, i.e. the "negative" path. It's very
similar to how the Cayce Readings spoke of a "Great White Brotherhood"
in higher densities. For modern times this sounds very, very bad, though
the original intent wasn't.

It is very interesting to reflect on the fact that the vast majority of
"negativity" on this planet today is caused by an overabundance of those
who APPEAR to be acting in a manner consonant with the positive polarity
of energy - namely that archetypal force that goes out into the world
and makes things happen. Thus, without the understanding of how they
have totally contorted this polarity, one could THINK that our planet
has too much positive energy and not enough negative energy. You see how
confusing this can get? It's best not to go there in discussions, IMO.

What has happened is that the "positive" energy is actually inverted, so
that the motivative force of the positive is still going out there and
making things happen as per its archetypal nature, but the whole INTENT
behind it is to draw energy into itself - i.e. the negative path. Once
again, it is "negative masquerading as positive" in the directly
energetic sense. The feminine qualities are exactly what is required to
balance this motivative force - so that we then never speak of one or
the other, but of the balanced working of the two together. That force
goes out into the world and makes things happen, doing so with love, in
a way that radiates outward and benefits everyone.

The male / female correlations to source and sink energy flows occur at
a level where, in electrodynamics, we speak of positive and negative
charge polarities. However, this is much higher up on the grand scale of
the architecture of the universe than the distorted versions of these
polarities as expressed in the lower densities prior to unity. Once
unified, these polarities are totally neutral, simply related to the
flow of energy in the universe. We couldn't survive without either one.

I have tried very hard not to offend anyone in engaging this question,
and if there is a misunderstanding of the service-to-others intent in
the words, I do apologize and want to insure that I did not mean it.

Peace be with you -

- David

[Lesley Schultz]

Dear David, Tony, et al L/L & Peace to All:
--- David Wilcock <djw333@... (/group/asc2k/post?postID=pqcopvugf0TWL01GdRTaKRNVrbyUNQSOpk8wTa v1X-R0D1lvoTHBF6ow3cmoMwuWQ-vjb5eYlqLtkb20dIMe)> wrote:
> From: Tony E. P.
>
>snip> Once again, it is "negative masquerading as
positive" in the directly energetic sense. The
feminine qualities are exactly what is required to
> balance this motivative force - so that we then
> never speak of one or the other, but of the balanced
working of the two together. That force
> goes out into the world and makes things happen,
> doing so with love, in
> a way that radiates outward and benefits everyone.
>
LS: Very nicely put. I think another Otherself Lister
talked about the biochemical expression of the
male/female roles in society and in nature, and this
is an important point too. Women do have babies, and
estrogen affects behavior and physicality in a
profound way. The rest is socialization and
expression of personality. One an individual scale,
there are great differences in how both masculinity
and femininity are expressed, which makes for
wonderous variety. On the scale of society in
countries, there is enormous pressure to conform to an
ideal, with more or less successful results. Although
I might be just babbling electronically [and not for
the first time] I see in our country and in others
around the world an increasing pressure to cage the
expression of women on a social scale-- e.g. the
appointment of Pickering by GWB to the Appellate
court, a known segragationist and anti-abortion
supporter. The present American administration would
like nothing better than to drag us back to the time
of Eisenhower and Johnson, undo all the advances in
rights for women and their role in society, and in the
workplace. But I digress.

The influence of the feminine is desperately needed,
if we are able to make a peaceful and graceful
transition to 4D. Whether or not this will be
permitted to happen, I don't know, but all we can do
is try. We can't survive, each without the other, and
it is not necessary for one to establish dominance
over the other in order to work effectively together.

Blessings,
~lesley

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[Dianna L]

Thank you David, for this site.
.
I have always took comfort, before I had my two children, in the fact that =
I could do so much as a woman. I never went for the clothes, make up, or nig=
ht's out on the town. I was always for hiking, nature, and reading. Most of =
my friends were men, like brothers.
.
Now, I care for my children, read loads of things, and quietly live a diffe=
rent reclusive life. Except for the internet and my children's schools I wou=
ld not be noticed much as being a resident of this town. I am now truly cont=
ent in this life just as I was while working in my other phase of life. Only=
now, I learned how to bake bread, hehe. .
.
Materially, I have what I want and I want what I have. If I wanted security=
and money, I could allow the advances of my parents neighbor, of 5 years, w=
ho works overseas in the oil fields for halliburton. But I do not chose that=
path either for several reasons. He remains my parents friend and knows my =
position for solitude, and my desire to remain. I guess I am selfish, in tha=
t, I have peace.
.
You see, in short, I moved with my mother 24 times, while in her care. I ha=
d several step fathers, a few of which desired something I fought not to giv=
e. I have a step-brother who was too old then to see most of it. I grew up w=
atching Bonanza, using it as my spring board. The hardships though were perh=
aps why I was so good in martial arts, and strength of person. The military =
helped a lot as well. Learning the russian language was a wonderful gift. I =
own my own home and car, but outside of that, I would be considered poverty =
level for my family's income. I get/choose no child support nor alimony. I s=
ought to avoid such needs as it would set me free to raise my children safel=
y without fear for them having to live an uncertain life as I had to live in=
my past.
.
Now, I choose a path so that my children will never see the side of life th=
at I lived in, and I fight to preserve what they will receive as normal and =
peaceful as possible, at least formatively. The intent to provide peace and =
emotional security is the best I have to offer. My aunts and uncles helped a=
s well.
.
So all in all, there is what dirty laundry and skeletons I have to bare. I =
have learned recently to accept what happened then as what I may have chosen=
in pre-life for my initial path of lessons and trials. I guess I have alway=
s sought a personal spiritual side, perhaps because I had no where else to g=
o back then. So in it all, I take comfort in that there is still growth in l=
earning. I hold no grudge, such things only devour the holder. Instead, I se=
ek to rediscover the truer meanings of life. The Love that knows no hate, th=
e Love that embraces both bad times and good.
.
Not much to speak of, but such is the life of some I guess. I am thankful t=
hough that I have never let go of spiritual Love from the heart, a gift give=
n me when I was but three years old, (another time).
.
So my female side is peppered with the male strength. I appreciate and valu=
e both sides of gender.
.
Love, Peace, and Light :)
.
Dianna

I only desire to learn and grow.

--- In asc2k@yahoogroups.com (/group/asc2k/post?postID=Wzh58cLHXdJKohPp_QNNssekn1lfv_rA_8oUpi pQ0-hcKkJyA0spjAawjPMwqF01aLYXZAVAna3__SK1bgvv), Light Eye <universal_heartbeat2012@y...> wrot=
e:
> Dear Friends,
>
> Here's something nice concerning the male/female - ying/yang - duality.
>
> http://www.lovesedona.com/02.htm
>
> Be Well, BE LOVE.
>
> David
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[Tony E. P.]

What you said below kind of reminds me how the U.S. Government has
been acting. Well, namely Bush and what he's doing with Iraq. IMO,
he's not trying to help Iraq, but trying to get in a position so we
can get all that oil, and get it cheaply. In other words, conditional
love, not unconditional love. (Inverted positve energy)

> What has happened is that the "positive" energy is actually
inverted, so
> that the motivative force of the positive is still going out there
and
> making things happen as per its archetypal nature, but the whole
INTENT
> behind it is to draw energy into itself - i.e. the negative path.

[Jack Sweeney]

David:

Thank you for this site as well, has helped me
identify my own strengths and weaknesses in
relationships.

I am more of a feminine man than masculine, and tend
to invite masculine women into my life. These women,
especially in China, tend toward greed and so
overwhelm my capacity for support.

My assumption is to offer support in relationships,
but women end up plundering rather than reciprocating.

My need is to build stronger masculine traits as
protection against the greedy types, so that I can
exercise more choice and free will in relationships.

L&L, Jack
--- Dianna L <MysticWinds_1@... (/group/asc2k/post?postID=hku_TEF8lpF6mQ4JkzFNOwPZIKVjeexHtIGnH_ GuOqbbxq3GXfJ5qkv1tUt7cGIrFuuyr0lse9ftOCl_5xlxPIs)> wrote:
> Thank you David, for this site.
> .


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[shemayet_3]

Blessings Group, L~&~L :)

--- In asc2k@yahoogroups.com (/group/asc2k/post?postID=gF4cxQnp8dXJYmn628iIKktu-FCACVXVnFs42aohzAnfwan4HxKXuyd3fJpHFa0X6x2zo7v6uD9 Cz6lrUEAjnA), Light Eye
<universal_heartbeat2012@y...> wrote:

>>> Dear Friends,
Here's something nice concerning the male/female - ying/yang -duality.

http://www.lovesedona.com/02.htm

Be Well, BE LOVE.

David


Me: Thank you David. The information was helpful to me. I enjoyed it
very much. :)

Namaste

Shemayet~*

[Lesley Schultz]

My very dear Jack, L/L & Peace to All:

--- Jack Sweeney <mojavecowboy@... (/group/asc2k/post?postID=2r2TbhwDTCLeQiCJo4kfwKQai8xrk7lc5coeng IMTZYmqlDWO4mqO5qMxv028nXIlN2Tectn8pGa0OyQr8yk6e0)> wrote:
> David:
>
> snip> > My need is to build stronger masculine
traits as protection against the greedy types, so that
I can exercise more choice and free will in
relationships.
>
LS: With the greatest respect, Jack, I think perhaps
you might consider examining what your expectations
are in a love relationship, rather than building
"stronger masculine traits." Without wishing to put
too fine a point on it, my thought [based on years of
attracting the wrong men] is that the people we bring
into our lives tend to validate our expectations. If,
in my case, I expect rejection from a love
relationship, this is what I ultimately receive. In
order to change this pattern, I need to do some
personal work on my orange/self-worth energy levels.
I'm wondering if maybe something else may be at work
in your love-relations, Jack, that bears examination.

The only reason why I say this is that a man who can
combine the best of both genders is a very rare and
special man. Having known and loved many men [in
various forms of love] and having a great appreciation
for the male sex, I think I can say that all men are
deeply special in their own way. Don't close up your
heart because you have been badly treated in the past,
for this can also close off the nuturing, healthy and
loving relationship you seek. It's much harder to
open your heart, and keep it open, after having been
hurt but surrendering to the moment might help you
live with what loves come into your life. I'm not
saying that you should accept ill-treatment, only that
if you can adjust your expectations, the holographic
universe can have greater power to oblige your higher
desires for love/light.

Just a thought, Jack.

Blessings and peace,
~lesley

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[itsthecanadian1@...]

In a message dated 1/19/2004 1:09:31 AM Mountain Standard Time,
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> David:
>
> Thank you for this site as well, has helped me
> identify my own strengths and weaknesses in
> relationships.
>
> I am more of a feminine man than masculine, and tend
> to invite masculine women into my life. These women,
> especially in China, tend toward greed and so
> overwhelm my capacity for support.
>
> My assumption is to offer support in relationships,
> but women end up plundering rather than reciprocating.
>
> My need is to build stronger masculine traits as
> protection against the greedy types, so that I can
> exercise more choice and free will in relationships.
>
> L&L, Jack
>

BAMM!!! Thank-you Jack, for this insight! This same situation is the same
thing I have not been able to answer for myself for my entire life AND YOU
OPENED MY EYES!! = )

with gratitude
Jerry


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[Light Eye]

Dear Lesley,

"Without wishing to put too fine a point on it, my thought [based on years of
attracting the wrong men] is that the people we bring
into our lives tend to validate our expectations."

David - That's because the universe gives you/us everything you/we wish for.
This is a very true statement which is One of the problems that you/us or any
one for that matter including me - :-) doesn't fully understand. One of the
major problems is that when you or any one for that matter including me - :-)
wish for something consciously it can come in conflict with what our
sub-conscious is often thinking. One could say that our sub-conscious is that
"nagging little feeling" that - maybe, and I emphasis MAYBE that "says" that we
don't really know what we want.

And If you/we "really" don't know what "you/we want" deep down inside how in the
world are you/we ever going to find it?

That question answers itself.

The question really is though in the end...

Are you going to listen to that "maybe"?

Thats up to you to decide.

Be Well, BE LOVE.

David




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[Jack Sweeney]

Lesley:

Thank you, that is good advice. I wanted to put this
out in the hopes of resolving the problem. You've
given me a good direction.

L&L, Jack



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[Jack Sweeney]

Lesley:

Do you have specific suggestions on what type of work
here?

"In order to change this pattern, I need to do some
personal work on my orange/self-worth energy levels.
I'm wondering if maybe something else may be at work
in your love-relations, Jack, that bears examination."

Thank you, Jack

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[Jack Sweeney]

Jerry:

Thank David and Lesley, they have opened my eyes as
well.

When I was 17, a psychic told me about a problem that
I needed to resolve. 27 years later, here it is.

My father is still an alcoholic and I have self-worth
issues and boundary problems. Something happened to me
when I was about 3 years old that I am still trying to
uncover.

You may wish to start on 2nd chakra work.
Acknowledging and understanding the problem is just
the first step. Here's a website I found that focuses
on the psychology of the problem:

http://www.multidimensions.com/uncon_emotions_2chakra.html

I've suffered from sciatica for 6 years and believe
that it is directly related to 2nd chakra issues.

Love and Light, Jack

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[itsthecanadian1@...]

Love and Light to you David, Lesley, and Jack =).
Well.. now I engage this journey you have helped me to become aware of. I
appreciate your thoughts and experiences, I am just not sure I want another
adventure... HAHAHA!

Love and Light to ALL
Jerry


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[Lesley Schultz]

Dear Jack:

Having those issues myself, I can well understand your
pain. Orange ray blockages can be helped by learning
to accept love, without condition. This means
accepting love from any source without expectations.
It can mean accepting your dog's greetings of love
without being mad that he got his muddy paws all over
your suit. It can mean accepting someone's invitation
to lunch without weighing the other person's
intentions behind the invite or sizing up what benefit
that person may be able to bring to you. It can mean
taking a relation's phone call during dinner even when
you don't want to, because maybe this is really a plea
for love from you. On a very specific note, it can
also mean trying to see people as Otherselves rather
than as extensions of self. Often people like me with
self-worth issues try to enhance our perceptions of
woth by selecting the people we associate with very
carefully, and shutting out those that don't match our
needs and expectations. Unhappily, we do two
self-defeating things by doing this: one, we close the
doors of opportunities for love that could be both
wonderful and beautiful, and nourishing to our souls.
For another, we reinforce the effect in our own lives
of that from which we have suffered most: love with
conditions so high that they cannot be met.

Self-worth issues are fed by the belief that one is
not worthy of love, therefore when it is offered, it
is rejected. This can happen very unconsciously, and
one can "set up" these kinds of situations without
even knowing it. Breaking the old patterns takes a
long time and lots of work, but one thing you can do
is look for the love that is being offered you each
moment, and take it. Sometimes the love can be hard
to spot; and the people offering it may be as hampered
by their love/orange issues as we are.

For example, I know a lady at work, who is an awfully
nice lady and is always kind to me, but I distrust her
motives. She acts like she would like to make me a
friend, yet I find it hard to accept her overtures of
friendship. Why? She is a young and beautiful lady,
very intelligent and very capable-- very good at her
job. We work in the same department. I am 41 years
old and while certainly attractive, am hardly in her
league. I'm very good at my job too, with some
experience she lacks, yet I am suspicious. Is she
trying to be extra nice to me because she wants to
pick my brain or use me in some way? You see what
I've done here? In one blow I've destroyed any
possibility of nuturing a friendship because I believe
I'm not worthy of it, and set up a situation where I
can feel used and manipulated pretty much any time she
asks me for anything. And the ways in which I react
to men are even worse.

I'm pretty much suspicious of everyone, always
wondering what capital do they hope to make out of a
friendship with me. Not that I have so much to offer,
but that being a Wanderer and therefore so different
from the ordinary run of humanity, I feel that anyone
who gets close to me will find me too different or
irrelevant to their lives after a short time. Also, as
you might note already, I try hard to be as honest as
I can. Sometimes I say things that are uncomfortable
or that people don't want to hear. This causes people
to push me away, thus reinforcing a pattern as well.
Should one cease to be honest? Of course not, but one
can be nice about it.

In recognizing that I have played a part in
reinforcing these negative patterns, I have a lot of
self-examination to do. The fact that I am a Wanderer
and I am different means that at least some of this
reaction to what I am is entirely justified. I'm
different and I'm supposed to be. Yet, it was not
intended that I should lack love of any kind. So,
where to find it and how to recognize it?

There are no easy answers, Jack. I wish I had some
for you, as I think you've suffered enough. I can't
end your pain but you can, if you're willing to have
the courage to keep accepting the little love tokens
the universe is sending to you CONSTANTLY. The
universe would like nothing better than to have its
love accepted by you, the One Infinite Creator, and
asks nothing in return. You can return your love to
the universe in ways too numerous to get into, as you
already know what they are. Accepting the love is the
first step.

I don't know if I've been of help, but if you want to
talk, I'm here for you.

Blessings, peace and love [of course],

~lesley


--- Jack Sweeney <mojavecowboy@... (/group/asc2k/post?postID=PRlj6KRIi9SGUsM4ccJf7GNXY6CR__V44bZFwj y8IpS8FBc9_Fp-EketgG_MPd9_8LaisFpHBGy6PbOt)> wrote:
> Lesley:
>
> Do you have specific suggestions on what type of
> work
> here?
>
> "In order to change this pattern, I need to do some
> personal work on my orange/self-worth energy levels.
>
> I'm wondering if maybe something else may be at work
> in your love-relations, Jack, that bears
> examination."
>
> Thank you, Jack
>
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Lesley Schultz
865 York St. #3
Oakland, CA 94610

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[Dianna L]

Love and Light to Lesley, Jack and all,
I believe Lesley is right when she says for Jack to accept Love in it's many
manifestations.
.
Note: Everyone, please forgive me for capitalizing the word Love all of the
time, it's just that since a couple of years ago, I found for me, Love became a
living, thriving entity all its own. And to me I can not express Love without
acknoledging what I see of its highest form. Ok, with that out of the way....
.
I appreciate what Lesley says about accepting the various moments of Love in the
variety of displays outside of a physical relationship.
.
The one thought that struck a response in me was that at a certain point in
time, I learned about problems vs. solutions, where solutions became the focus.
I learned about living in the past vs. moving into the future, where "accepting"
the past meant that my experiences were meant as a direction for compassion,
healing, and tough honest Love. I learned about society's expectations vs.
accepting the choice of trusting my true inner feelings of what was good and
right for me, instead not the one's impressed on me by society or my parents.
Although, I am a single parent, I am a celibate one, much like a single
grandmother would be.
.
For me, it became not the problem, but the solution that mattered. I learned
that I didn't want to waste time anymore. Not wasting time in the sense that I
doubted my inner feelings and did what society deemed was right for me. I chose,
instead, to live for what I felt was right, what complemented my inner feelings
the most, with harm to no one. And thereby, this ended up by making me better
person, which helped me to also stop wasting other poeple's time (this is
totally directed towards me in regards to relationships). In this way, I found
self-peace, self-trust, and self-assurance. I have learned that I am where I am
supposed to be.
.
The chakra that 'seems' to need most my attention at this point I think, is my
blue throat chakra of communication. But if tested, I bet my orange chakra would
become a squeeky wheel. I have found that my sole tenacity in situations has
been quite strong, but I would also accept crossing the veil with a feeling of
sweet release, for such was my early childhood dream.
.
Lesley has the courage to speak out and tell it like it is. That is honesty.
Lesley has the kindness to make her words constructive, helpful, and relative to
daily life. That is consideration. Lesley has the compassion to share her pain
so that others will not feel alone, and maybe let them see some ways that might
help them. That is compassion.
.
Lesley, you spoke of your outspokenness as if it was a bad thing perhaps because
others took offense. But truthfully, from my standpoint. only a true friend
would risk being outspoken to help a friend see the forest before the trees.
.
The way I see it, the ones who withhold their tongue from friends more often
speak unkindly behind them.
.
Jack, I agree with Lesley, in that, a man with both qualities of his masculine
strength and his feminine caring is a rare and special person. Whatever you
choose to learn, I hope within your searching, you will always find the answers
that complete with heart-filling solutions and peaceful, life affirming growth.
Accept Your inner self. Respect, Trust, and Love who You are. You... trust your
inner feelings, and you may find life opening doors of "Like attracts Like" have
been waiting for you. With harm to no one. Love, Peace, and Joy, these I wish
for you on your journey.
.
Love and Light, and Peace
.
Dianna

[Lesley Schultz]

My dear Dianna, L/L & Peace to All:

I thank you for the lovely words of praise, and I
salute you for the courage you have to make the
choices you've made and to tell us about them. I
particularly respect your choices with regard to not
cluttering your life with things that take away from
your desire to grow, to learn/teach and to serve your
growing family. Finding peace and Love is not easy,
and cultivating them is even harder. Trying to seek
the Love in the moment is probably the hardest thing
I've ever tried to do, and I don't expect to succeed
more than half the time. There is just too much love
that I routinely overlook. I just pray that Jack and
Fran and Dave and all my other cherished Otherselves
find their peace in Love as you apparently have.

Blessings,
~lesley


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[Jack Sweeney]

Lesley:

Thank you for your blessings and help.

There are some great resources available.
Eclecticenergies.com offers a free chakra test as well
as an Enneagram test.

I discovered that I am particularly deficient in the
root and second chakras, then third and fourth as
well.

From there, one may do yoga, meditation, paint
mandalas, use colors (orange for second chakra) sounds
(key of D major) aromas (looking for Buddhist incense
that corresponds to second chakra), mudras (hand
positions to open chakras).

Looking further to Chinese medicine for stimulation of
meridians and acupoints through electroacupuncture.
Sciatica is directly related to second chakra and
stimulation may help move me along physically.

Creativity is another realm directly related to second
chakra and I've found groups to help in that area.

Lots of work to do, but with your help, I've
identified the problem and have direction.

L&L, Jack

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[Jack Sweeney]

Dianna:

Thank you for your great words.

"I chose, instead, to live for what I felt was right,
what complemented my inner feelings the most, with
harm to no one. And thereby, this ended up by making
me better person, which helped me to also stop wasting
other poeple's time (this is totally directed towards
me in regards to relationships). In this way, I found
self-peace, self-trust, and self-assurance. I have
learned that I am where I am supposed to be."

I've been trying to live as an artist (screenwriter)
but I keep allowing others to come into my life and
waylay the Inner child who wants to create.

One day, certainly, I may make some woman happy, but
that won't come until healing happens.

My feeling is that I attract lower-vibration women
because that is the vibration i give off through my
chakras. If I can raise my vibration, I can attract
higher-vibration women.

L&L, Jack
.


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