Serenidade "Sábia
04-07-2003, 09:11 AM
Questioner: I have a question, Q?uo. To what extent?or is there a limit to the
amount of service to another that one would appropriately offer?
I am Q?uo, and am aware of your query, my sister. The extent of any service to
another entity is limited by the amount of service that is desired and requested
by that other entity, for service is not possible if it is not desired or
requested. Thus, it is necessary for the one desiring to be of service to others
to operate first upon the basis of a request, then to continue in as clear a
communication as is possible with the one being served in order to ascertain
whether or not a continuation of service is appropriate.
Questioner: When there is a difficulty in communication between the one to be
served and the one offering service, there would seem to be a difficulty in
determining the service to be desired, even if desired. Can you speak on that?
I am Q?uo. In such an instance we would advise that the first concern is the
clarification of the communication in order that those areas which are not
distinct or well understood might be understood more clearly. This avoids the
confusion of that which is desired by the one who wishes the service and that
which is desired by the one who wishes to serve, for many times we find among
your peoples those who are of a service to others orientation are so full of the
desire to be of service that the offering of service is often done in what might
be seen a blind manner, where it is hoped that that which is offered will be
seen as service and will function as service, whereas if more time and effort
were invested in obtaining the true desires of the one to be de?we correct this
instrument?the one to be served, then there would be seen another avenue perhaps
would open up.
Carla: Just a clarification. I am assuming that it is never an infringement on
anyone?s free will just to love them.
I am Q?uo. This is quite correct, my sister. Is there another query?
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amount of service to another that one would appropriately offer?
I am Q?uo, and am aware of your query, my sister. The extent of any service to
another entity is limited by the amount of service that is desired and requested
by that other entity, for service is not possible if it is not desired or
requested. Thus, it is necessary for the one desiring to be of service to others
to operate first upon the basis of a request, then to continue in as clear a
communication as is possible with the one being served in order to ascertain
whether or not a continuation of service is appropriate.
Questioner: When there is a difficulty in communication between the one to be
served and the one offering service, there would seem to be a difficulty in
determining the service to be desired, even if desired. Can you speak on that?
I am Q?uo. In such an instance we would advise that the first concern is the
clarification of the communication in order that those areas which are not
distinct or well understood might be understood more clearly. This avoids the
confusion of that which is desired by the one who wishes the service and that
which is desired by the one who wishes to serve, for many times we find among
your peoples those who are of a service to others orientation are so full of the
desire to be of service that the offering of service is often done in what might
be seen a blind manner, where it is hoped that that which is offered will be
seen as service and will function as service, whereas if more time and effort
were invested in obtaining the true desires of the one to be de?we correct this
instrument?the one to be served, then there would be seen another avenue perhaps
would open up.
Carla: Just a clarification. I am assuming that it is never an infringement on
anyone?s free will just to love them.
I am Q?uo. This is quite correct, my sister. Is there another query?
www.llresearch.org April 7, 1991 transcript
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