Reconcilliation

[Sunny One]

i fell into a conversation about missionaries,
and one local church has one for reconcilliation.
i asked "when do you know you have reached
a reconcilliation point?"
the answer i got is "when you feel gratitude."

there is a japanese process called naikan.
it entails in simple terms creating 3 time bounded
lists:
1st all the things they've done for you.
2nd all the things you've done for them.
3rd all the things you've done to muck up the
situation.
the power of this process is that your perspective
can be shifted from resentment to gratitude.

pat


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