Question: Innerwork and Outerwork in the Balancing process

[3D Sunset]

I've been thinking lately about the proper mix of, or place for inner work and outer work in the balancing process.

For example, consider someone with a yellow ray blockage due to difficulties in his/her relationship at their work environment. I understand that the blockage can be resolved through internal balancing techniques, examining the nature of the difficulty, closely considering both sides, and experiencing appropriate opposing thoughts and feelings to resolve the blockage internally.

But the blockage was also an inner manifestation of an outer issue between the self and otherself (or group of other selves) that may still need work to resolve the issue within the 3rd density experience. It seems that if this "outterwork" is performed properly through communication and unconditional love, it would inherently resolve the inner blockage.

Finally, I see these different methods of approaching an issue something related to or even inherent in how our "concensus reality" is formed. (More on this later, perhaps).

What are your thoughts / experiences?

3D

[twva]

I agree that blockages can be resolved either through inner work or through outer work. Often, of course, it's helpful to do both, ie attempt to verbalize your feelings with your co-worker, spouse, or whomever and then retreat and meditate and analyze the recent conversation. Then repeat as necessary :)

[daresh]

I think both need to be balanced, the inner work is done so the relationships with others get better. It can go on many ways. The inner balancing can be important to discover unconscious mechanisms and habits that happen in interaction with others which could create the blockages. But eventually most is learnt in interaction with other selves.
Isn't communication and unconditional love a result from inner work which is again caused by interactions with other selves?
Think there is a deep interconnection where a simple distinction is not so easy.

[soup]

Sometimes there can seem an exaggerated sense that a person can exemplify which can help other people to grasp a similar quality within themselves, as if some people's gift to others can seem to amplify some quality in a way which helps others perceive that quality. Inherent within such gifts of exaggeration can seem the semblance of blockage and imbalance which may limit the person in some way or another. Generally speaking, such trade offs could be considered in one way contrast for other ways of being or else a personal sacrifice of demonstrating an exaggerated state of being from which others may benefit...in this way, a state of compassion with greater levels of acceptance may be reached for another and also for the similar portion of another within oneself.


soup